Sts Peter and Paul a contrast Law/Gospel, Peace/Sword First St Johns June 29, 2014 5

We make our beginning in the Name of God the Father and in the Name of God the Son and in the Name of God the Holy Spirit and all those who bear their cross and loses their life for the sake of Christ said … AMEN

This is a really tough pericope, the Christians who like the “Name it and claim it” brand of Christianity, the Joel Osteen everything is beautiful and loving, who think that being a Christian is supposed to be a nice, calm sail across the Sea of Galilee, like we said in our VBS this past week. …What? It wasn’t a nice calm sail? There was a storm? Jesus had to calm the storm so the disciples would be saved? That’s not supposed to happen, it’s supposed to be nice and calm to be a Christian. A church sign says “calm seas don’t make skillful sailors.” That is true, if you are on the sea, you will run into bad weather, you have to know how to run your boat in order to keep everyone safe. Jeremiah found out that faithfully serving Yahweh was not an easy way to live. Jeremiah was a priest, you’d think he’d have had things nice and easy, being a priest then wasn’t a lot of heavy lifting, but Jeremiah was used by God to tell Jerusalem the truth. They didn’t like it, they took it out on Jeremiah, they made his life really tough.
I copy in my daily schedule “God’s love is not a pampering love, it is a perfecting love.” How can God really perfect us if it’s all about making sure we are nice and comfy? It won’t. As the sign implies there have to be rough seas in order for us to learn how to be the best sailors we can be, to faithfully serve as sailors. Likewise if we faithfully want to serve Christ He sets some pretty high bars in today’s lesson. I’ve referred to this verse many times, “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword.” (Matt 10:34) People don’t want to hear me say this, we want to think that it’s all about peace, that the Lord wants us to live peaceful quiet lives, that because we make the right “choice” when we become Christians we get an automatic pass, nice calm seas. People like to think that Jesus is some kind of salesman, “pick Me and your life will be nice and calm”, we’re so used to all the shilling on television, Christian pastors are supposed to be salesmen and tell you how peaceful and even profitable Christian life is. Then we hit this verse. Farther on we see Jesus sacrifice Himself so that we can be forgiven of all our sins and we think “Jesus took the hit for us and now we can just enjoy life and sail through it.” Then we hit this rock, this passage and like those disciples who couldn’t deal with Jesus saying “you must eat my Body and drink my Blood” and decided “no, this is more than I can handle” and picked up and left. We expected peace and prosperity and now He’s telling us He didn’t come to bring peace, but a sword? I don’t want to deal with that, someone must have a better deal for me and they pick up and leave. It often looks as though the people in the world have a better deal, shouldn’t we if Jesus is on our side? Furthermore, He tells us: “For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.36 And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household.37 Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.38 And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.39 ” I didn’t sign up for that, I don’t want to turn my home, my family into a war zone. A woman on Focus on the Family tells about losing her 21 year old son. Most people in the world would be angry with God, they would reject Him; “how could you let this happen? Why didn’t you protect Him?” We don’t know the mind of God, we can’t reject Him because things don’t work out the way we think they should be. The woman said that she felt that God had failed her and then the Holy Spirit reminded her, our lives her are short, compared to the eternity of our life in the perfection of the resurrection, our lives are a blink. She had Jesus’ promises, over and over again, in the Book of Revelation that the overcomer will be saved. He says in Revelation 2:7: “To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.’” He says it again in Revelation 2:11, 17, 26, Rev 3:5, 12, 21, and Rev 21:7. Over and over that the overcomer will be provided for with eternal life, peace, comfort, but in the resurrection, not in the world. How do we overcome? By trusting like this woman did, she said that she knew the only way she would see her son again was in the resurrection, that she, her son, her entire family would be reunited to eternal life trusting in Jesus. How do we become an “overcomer”? Through our own strength? No! The trials that Jesus tells us will come will be too much for us to deal with. Many of us now know these trials. I was, at best, a “cultural Christian” went to church, on the big ones, Easter, Christmas. Jesus, to me, was a “nice man, a great teacher”, anything more than that just didn’t fit my world view. The Holy Spirit used events in my life to show me who Jesus truly is. The Holy Spirit took me and guided me to where I needed to be in order to know Christ as my Savior, I was saved through the power of Christ, through the power of the Cross, through Baptism which gives me life eternal and through the Body and Blood of Jesus in the Lord’s Supper. But none of that presupposes that my life will be smooth sailing, free of any storm or turbulence. Others in my own family don’t see it that way, I know exactly what Jesus is saying when He tells us: “And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household.” I would be willing to bet many of you know the same thing. Do we want to be with those we love in the Resurrection? Jesus tells us that we must be “overcomers”, that the only way we will overcome is through the strength and power of the Holy Spirit, through the power of forgiveness in Him who died for us, in whose Name we are baptized, whose Body and Blood gives us life in Him and eternal forgiveness. K A Phinney writes: “The cross God gives you to bear is the very one He knows you can handle. It’s designed just for you, and you will be the one that becomes a better person because of it. Like coal under intense pressure, you will become diamonds. There isn’t another cross more perfect for you, and no one else’s cross can replace it.”1 So yes, we are put under that pressure, but we are never alone under that pressure. Jesus isn’t on the sidelines cheering us on, He has already taken the load of that pressure on Himself on the Cross. He gives us the faith we need in order to endure that pressure and His strength to carry the weight of the Cross. He gives us the courage to deal with the fact that in this world things will not always work out according to our plan. We join with our brother Terry, as the Body of Christ, to strengthen him in his time of trial. Terry just lost his son Shawn Friday night, we pray that Terry knows that the Father is a very real presence with him at all times and certainly through this time of trial. I pray that Terry knows the promises of Jesus, to be an overcomer, even when the world makes it so hard to endure and so easy to reject God. Too often we get our theology from the world. Remember the cheesey old 50’s song?: “Oh where oh where, can my baby be? The Lord took her away from me. She’s gone to heaven, so I’ve got to be good. So I can see my baby when i leave this world.” Pearl Jam redid that in the 90s so we wouldn’t forget cheesey theology. As theology goes, as, heavens, doctrine goes, this is bad, but this is what we, too often take as Gospel. Yes God takes, but it’s as a result of our sin, we are told to overcome, not just be “good”, whatever that really means, but to truly overcome this sin filled world, and the only way that happens is in Jesus. He tells us straight out, there is no peace in the world. Today we remember Saints Peter and Paul, two very different men, but they had Jesus in common. They bore the cross Jesus gave them, their lives were very hard, very difficult and they were both martyred. According to tradition Peter was crucified upside down because he was not worthy of dying the same way the Lord did. As Christian disciples we will have difficult lives, but they are lives that will make us holy, perfect in Him, worthy of Him and worthy of eternal salvation and life in Him. The peace of God which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Shalom and Amin.

Friends or Servant leader

Fr Frederick Nkwasibwe Business Courage talks about being “friends”. I understand what he is talking about, but I think what he means stops a little short of being “friends”. I don’t know, maybe I’m being a little too rigid, but in business, seems like you maintain a bit of an “arms length” attitude towards those you work with, especially if they work for you, that goes for the military and I also see that as being a pastor. I have friends from many walks of my life, even in my short time as a pastor, there are people who will always be friends, but they are the exception. So you tell me, people who are “associates”, yea I can see them being friends, but people you work for or who work for you, sure it’s possible, but it’s going to be the exception.
As I said, I understand what Fr Nkwasibwe when he says being “friends”, but he hyphenates that with servant and that I think is the much better description:
“A great leader as a friend-servant also demonstrates a courage and virtue of patience and longanimity [a disposition to bear injuries patiently – yes I had to look it up, but even the blog-site has it as incorrect] Riaud (1992) quoting St Thomas Aquinas refers to longanimity as ‘the supernatural virtue which makes us wait for the realization in us of God’s designs of mercy and sanctification with respect to our souls, with equanimity, that is, without complaint or bitterness’ (p 110). Such a leader is able to embrace, accept and endure workplace suffering, which may be caused by egotistical and self-seeking behavior, jealous co-workers; and risk-laden nature of work. It may also be caused by disobedient and stubborn followers; dissatisfied employees; global economic downturn that leads to downsizing and or cutting wages, benefits and jobs; hostile business risks; loss of sanity and ethics; and mistakes of poor judgment among others.
Business courage is also concerned with true and righteous leaders who recognize that there is no better secret technique that motivates, inspires and empowers followers than treating them as friends…
…a leader filled with courage and virtue not only treats the workforce as friends but also assumes a challenging duty of protecting them against the faces of oppression, which include exploitation, marginalization, powerlessness, cultural imperialism and violence (Cf Adams, et all. 2000, p 44)” (Business Courage pp 410, 411)
Remembering that Father is from Africa, not a native English speaker I do understand what he’s saying. I wouldn’t put it in terms of being “friends”, I would use the word servants. Now Father Nkwasibwe can certainly make a Christian case for saying “friend” though: “ESV John 15:15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.” Jesus certainly could expect to continue to think of the disciples as “students”, just as we would think of our students, employees as subordinates vs friends. We should certainly let these kinds of relationships evolve. I’ve lived that myself. It’s kind of interesting in my relationship with people I served with in the Coast Guard. I spent 29 years in the reserves, liked what I did and was happy to remain right in the middle of the enlisted grades. A lot of the guys I worked with advanced to more senior levels, but frankly they moved behind desks and I just wasn’t interested. Especially after retirement though,these relationships became as a friend after our Coast Guard careers ended. I was friends with these guys, but there was a distance and there should have been. Afterwards I talk with all of them as an old friend, as we should. As a leader you have a higher duty as a servant. As a servant you have different duties, to your management, to investors, customers, to do what is in the best interests of your employees, but remembering you do have other constituencies. Often you have to do things that may not seem “friendly”, but are serving the ultimate best interests. What if you do have to discharge a “friend”, or otherwise discipline him/her? What is in the best interests of all involved? Can you still be friends? One guy in particular, he was a great friend. But he was also determined to get the best out of me, sometime it felt that he was just busting my cookies a little, but he wanted me to push harder and I was better for it. But he has been one of my best friends since we were BM3s and since we’ve both retired we’ve become closer. But while we served it was about the mission.

Having “friends” can cause workplace dissension, creating the conditions that Father Nkwasibwe warns against. When those you work with realize that you are serving everyone’s best interests, but doing it in a way that isn’t hamhanded, bullying there will be a servant driven environment.
We are back on Wednesdays 10am at First St Johns 140 W King St, park behind the back. We are about half way through Dr Gene Veith’s book. See you there.

Spirit, mind and body

Thanks to the York County Council on Aging for a great “Seniors Game”. I have to admit that it sort of bristles that I’m “old” enough to be in anything that refers to “seniors”, however the YCCA, AARP, various other organizations posit that I am “old” enough. It was fun though and I did pretty well, even won in backstroke, which I’ve never won anything at. So I won three silvers and one bronze, 100 yard free, 50 yard back, 50 yard breast and 100 yard breast.
The entire competition went awhile, started at 10am and ended at 3pm, but considering the events and age groups the volunteers made sure things went off bang, bang. Gave me time to chat with new friends, get some good tips, allowed me to reflect back to the competitions I did in school/YMCAs. It’s been a long time since I’ve done a swim meet and there was plenty of time to take it in and get that old feeling from many years ago.
We are very physical beings, when we die, assuming the Lord Jesus doesn’t return before then, we will be in spirit, but only for a short time. We were made to be physical beings. God put Adam and Eve into the Garden of Eden intending that they should live there in a perfect, very physical world. That is what the resurrection will be. We will live in a world much like it is today, but Jesus will be our very visible light, we will be sinless, our bodies will be strong, there will be no illness, no physical disability or death. We will be as we were intended to be until we undermined God’s work with our sin and corruption.
Point being we were made to be very physical, in body, to use our minds for God’s glory and to have a spirit that transcends the world and by the Holy Spirit is guided into eternal life. As God’s children in Jesus we are responsible to use the gifts associated with body, mind and spirit to our best abilities and to the glory of God.
So yea, I try to make a good witness by trusting in God, being led by Him and doing the things that bring glory to Him in all the ways He made me, to rip off the YMCA, in spirit, mind and body. Having swum for YMCA teams, been a member, lifeguard, swimming instructor, phys ed instructor, aquatic director and filling various and sundry other jobs at the “Y”, and being a Christian organization, it’s always great to see that motto and remember all the things that God made us for.
It was fun to compete, it was fun to win some, but it was fun to just have a little God given ability and use it as He intended and maybe, just maybe be an example to someone else who might just decide; “it’s time to get back in there and do something to make myself stronger in body, mind and spirit.” I hope you will join me and share how you have decided, to make yourself stronger in all the gifts God gave you.

You don’t have to win, place but just show up for the challenge, the fellowship and to His glory.

Christian martyrs, by the millions in the twentieth century up to now

If you want to get me spun up, pull this tired old chestnut out, about “how the church has ‘killed’ so many people, how the church is so ‘dangerous'”, I hear this nonsense all the time. Persecution against Christians has been going on since the very beginning. Starting with the stoning of Stephen right up to Christians being persecuted all through Africa, India, China, Southeast Asia. There were more Christian martyrs in the twentieth century then all the previous centuries, combined! No the dangerous segment of our society is the secular, responsible for World Wars I and II, Korea, Vietnam, Pol Pot, Joseph Stalin, Ho Chi Mihn, Mao Tse Tung, Hitler, Tojo, Mussolini, yea on and on, secularists, even pagans mindlessly killing millions, and usually targeting Christians.

Today we see Christian churches of all stripes whose relief agencies provide all sorts of supplies and support for those afflicted by natural and man-made disasters. Christians build and support hospitals, schools, orphanages, relief for the poor, the home- less, sex-trafficing, women dealing with unplanned pregnancies. The American Red Cross, the Salvation Army, both have their roots from support of American Christians. America provides more relief and human support than any other country in the world, all because of the Christians in America, our Christian roots and heritage. Those who are secular put their trust in government to provide relief, Christians put their trust in private agencies, which are far more effective and provide for far more people than any government agency. We see that over and over again.

Yet, the persecution, the bigotry, the hatred against Christians continues. The biggest haters, by far, are the ones who love to call everyone else haters. They’re usually the ones who run to the church when their world is collapsing and no one else will have anything to do with them.

Matthew Harrison is the president of the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod and he talks about the mindless contemporary persecution of Christians, men and women who will run to bring relief to people in the darkest, deepest places in the world. Places where no one else will even think of going unless they are accompanied by a significant force of armed military, if it all. A long lady we met at seminary is now serving as a missionary in Kenya. This is a  young lady who just graduated from high school, she speaks numerous languages, is a musician, just an intelligent, accomplished young lady who is now holed up in a Christian compound because of a threat by Muslims in that otherwise peaceful country. I am going to quote President Harrison at length because you probably won’t see his comments anywhere else, especially in the secular media.

“The 20th century was the bloodiest in Christian history with the death of tens of millions at the hands of communist regimes. Now we are continuously shocked by Islamic radicals persecuting and killing Christians daily in the Middle East and Africa. Meanwhile, our consciences vacillate as we sense the cultural shift in the U.S. that has produced an increasing avalanche of harassment and is likely to get much worse.”

“I was in Ethiopia a few months back. In 1979, the leader of the Ethiopian Evangelical Church Mekane Yesus (now approaching seven million Lutherans) was murdered by the Communist government. I chatted at lunch with the current president and general secretary of the church. The topic of persecution came up. Mind you, each of these men had themselves been repeatedly jailed in the Communist period for their confession of Christ. I cannot begin to imagine the horror of an Ethiopian prison. President Waksyoum Idosa leaned toward me across the table, raised his index finger, and said with all gravity, ‘Persecution is always good for the Church. Always.'”

“Since Luther’s hymn of martyrs is unknown (“A New Son Shall Here be Begun” written on the martyrdom of Johann Esch and Heinrich Voes) … I bid you pray for the modern martyrs soon to face death in Nigeria and elsewhere today. I bid you consider that your own ‘light momentary affliction in preparing for us an eternal wealth of glory beyond all comparisons’ (2 Corinthans 4:17). From Calvary itself, we know that God works the very greatest things through suffering and martyrdom – a ‘new song’ indeed.”

A New Song Shall Here Be Begun

1. A new song now shall be begun,

Lord, help us raise the banner

Of praise for all that God has done,

For which we give Him honor.

At Brussels in the Netherlands

God proved Himself most truthful

And poured His gifts from open hands

On two lads, martyrs youthful

Through whom He showed His power.

7. A paper given them to sign –

And carefully they read it –

Spelled out their faith in ev’ry line

As they confessed and said it.

Their greatest fault was to to be wise

And say, ‘We trust God solely,

For human wisdom is all lies,

We should distrust it wholly.’

This brought them to the burning.

12. Let men heap falsehoods all around,

Their sure defeat is spawning.

We thank our God the Word is found,

We stand in its bright dawning.

Our summer now is at the door,

The winter’s frost has ended,

Soft bud the flowers more and more,

by our dear Gard’ner tended

Until He reaps his harvest'”

[Matthew C. Harrison The Lutheran Witness June/July 2014 p 1.    A New Song Shall Here Be Begun Tr. F. Samuel Janzow, 1913 – 2001, setting by Carl Schalk, published by Concordia Publishing House 1982]

One thing persecution does do is to cull out of the church those who were in the church for the wrong reasons, those who are/were faithless. No one in the church wants persecution, but the reality is that persecution will become more overt. We are called to stand firm in the faith, the one true faith given to us by our Lord Jesus. Peter tells us in his epistle: “Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.” (1 Peter 4:12) There will be trials, faithful Christians will be pressed more and more in the near future, it is not something strange or unusual it is an unbelieving world rejecting what is good and faithful. But we are also saved, whatever happens here is only temporary, it is what is eternal that matters.

 

 

I looked over Jordan and what did I see…

Well no, it wasn’t angels, but seeing the Jordan River for the first time was a little surprising.

If you’re any kind of student of the Bible you know the Jordan River pops up in Scripture over and over. Joshua led Israel over the Jordan up to John the Baptizer preaching in the Jordan when Jesus said to him: “Let it be so now, for thus it is fitting for us to fulfill all righteousness.” (Matt 3: 13-17) I’ve always had an image of the Jordan being much grander, bigger. We went to the headwaters of the Jordan, up in the Golan Heights and it was a brook, an impressive brook, but no more than five feet wide. I’ve seen the Mississippi, the Missouri, the Susquehanna, the Hudson River, the East River, heck the Charles River, the Jordan isn’t even close. But in terms of our Lord being baptized in that river, there is nothing even close to the Jordan.

Pontius Pilate a very real historical figure

Up until recently the historicity of Pontius Pilate was doubted, critics of the Bible pointed to this “doubt” as another “proof” that the Bible was not historically accurate. Up until the stone’s discovery in 1961, Pilate was thought to be fictional, that is until the stone (pictured) was found. The stone was a dedication to the building of Caesarea Maritima and refers to Pilate as Prefect of Judaea. The stone is generally accepted to be authentic. This is a display at Caesarea Maritima, the stone there is a replica, the original is in the Jerusalem Museum. Archaeology continues over and over to confirm facts, not just from Jesus’ time, but for all the Bible.

Pushing myself and praying that God will use it to glorify Himself.

All this week has been “York County Senior Games”, organized by the York County Area Agency on Aging. First it bristles just knowing that I’m old enough for “Senior Games”, and I might not even be the youngest competitor. Then of course getting a good beat down too. I’m doing six swimming events, 50 yard, 100 yard, so each one will be over in an instant, and short distance is not my strong suit, not even in high school, but hey I’m doing it.

That should be the attitude for all of us. Believe me, I have never had to make much, if any room, on my “trophy” shelf for all my different competitions. And I’m not trying to get “soccer mom” either. Believe me getting a 1,2 or 3 medal would be nice, but at this point in life (old enough for “Senior Games”) it does become an issue of just getting out there and doing it, competing against others but mostly yourself.  So if I get something in addition to a t-shirt, I will include it with with triathlon “finisher” medals, it will be a nice reminder and it will also be an encouragement, a recognition that even though I didn’t do well, I did at least get out and do it. I did push myself, I did demand more of myself. Isn’t that what we’re really put here for? Does anyone think that the Christian life, is all about sitting around in this self-satisfied little cocoon? Do you think God honors that? That He gave you health and strength and stamina to just waste it sitting around and being even not so comfy? How many people are out there who would just love to be able to jump in a swimming pool and do a down and back?

So I’m not going to come back this afternoon showered with glory, but it will be with the feeling that I did get out there, I did push myself and in doing so I pray that God will know that as honoring to Him. That it is in praise and thanksgiving that I’m pushing the body He’s given me, farther than normal and I pray that He uses that and anything else I try to do to serve Him to His glory. There won’t be pictures, me in a jammer? Not pretty, hope everyone there can tolerate it.

**** Update, had a good time, got 4 medals, 3 silver, 1 bronze, got spanked in the 50 free-style, won the others in the 50 back, 50 breast, 100 free, 100 breast. The York Area on Aging did a great job to pull together all these different events and the volunteers who were there and made all this happen were just awesome. I just took off Friday morning to do the swim events. Got to hang with some fellow over 50’s and it was fun to share with people who don’t let the aging process from continuing to live. So if you are over 50, make plans for next year in June to come down and join in, you won’t regret it.

The Jezreel Valley, better known as the Plain of Armageddon

Yes, this is where the final battle described in the Book of Revelation. This picture is from the hill where Elijah faced off against the prophets of Baal. This area is especially interesting not for what will happen, but what has happened, there have been battles fought on this plain from the earliest time of history up to World War I. If the mountain could talk it could tell of us a fascinating history, if not bloody and frightening. Our tour guide also told us that this area is among the most fertile framing areas in the world, that farmers can often produce two separate crops in one season. How and why? I don’t really know and yea, just don’t feel a need to elaborate.

Please let’s start taking marriage and child raising seriously

The following is from a post from a brother pastor, Eric Ekong.

“Is marriage obsolete? In a recent Pew Research poll, about 40 percent of Americans assert or strongly assert that marriage in America is obsolete. You probably know the dismal stats about the divorce rate in our country. Here are nine reasons people give that might explain the steady collapsing of marriage in America:

I assume that the relationship is probably going to break up at some point, and the breakup will hurt less if we were never married in the first place.
–Marriage is an exploitative, chauvinistic anachronism that heavily favors patriarchal control. Liberated women will more likely get what they want on their own.
–From the male point of view, women are giving it away these days. You don’t have to commit to her to get sex.
–Single parenthood is the new normal. African-Americans are already there with single-parent birthrates in some places above 70 percent. White folks’ single parenthood stats are following.
–My mom was a single parent, and I turned out fine.
–Marriage is something you can think about when your kids are raised and you are secure in your job.
–Cohabiting preserves your freedom of choice.
–Movies and TV shows relentlessly portray young men as either uneducated, clueless, reckless, socially inept, or violent. Why would any woman want to lock in her life to such a high-risk partner?
–I’m not going to get married until I find the perfect soul mate.

Are these the attitudes you want in your children’s minds? In your grandchildren’s? In your own spouse’s? If you don’t, God has a better way. Let’s give the divine designer a chance to explain to us how to be happily married till death us do part and how to build a family life that will give him glory.”

Me – People love to talk about how smart they are today, when it comes to marriage, commitment, living life in a strong and faithful manner, way too many people, have way too little discernment. How do you think this affects society as a whole? When the burden gets to be too much on those who are trying to live responsible, faithful lives, how do you think it will work out for the rest.

Point one – Yes, I guess if you have a fatalistic view of marriage it will fail. Hey how about this, grow up, make a commitment, live a responsible life and decide that you will make it work. In the meantime stay out of bed with anyone who isn’t your spouse. Oh yeah, I get it, all the excitement, none of the responsibility. How do you really think that’s going to end up?

Marriage is a partnership, that too many men and women today think can be manipulated and played with. How about we all decide to be grown ups and truly commit to what is best for each other and children, and quit playing games. Exploitive? I’m not saying there aren’t bad situations, but the reality is this, the highest rate of poverty is on unmarried mothers. Married women, have a much lower rate of poverty, men will step up and provide. The nasty swill of those people that compose the media love to take isolated situations, make them the rule, distribute their extremely poor “work” to people who gullibly swallow it and there you have it. Broken families, no mutual responsibility and this nonsense that too many women believe that the government will give them all they want. Afterwards and I’ve seen plenty of “afterward” pictures, you have women living in substandard housing with children they can’t keep up with and the spiral continues down and down. Hey there are women that do step up and manage, but I would bet you anything that they would tell you it was much harder then it had to be.

Single-parenting is not a “norm”, it may be the situation, but if people were truly honest about their platitudes “it’s all about the kids”, they would try as much as possible to raise them in a family of a man and a woman. That is how children are raised the best, the research shows it over and over again. There are exceptions, but really, why would you want to try to be the exception, when you can step up and do what’s best for children. Be honest, it’s not about the kids, it’s just about you.

OK, fine, marriage and children are only for when you have a secure home. OK, when do you think that will be? Yea, right, come on. If that’s the standard, then a further standard should be this: “Until such time I am ready to raise children like that, I’m not going to put myself in the position where I could have children.” Yea, people like to get all righteous at one end, then the other end, ahhhh, not so much.

“Cohabiting preserves your freedom of choice.” and “I’m not going to get married until I find the perfect mate.” Seriously? I don’t even know how people can say this with a straight face. Yeah, “choice”, while you’re making your “choices”, what do you think the other person is doing? This is just a recipe for disaster for both of you. The person who says this thinks they’re cool and is showing they’re clueless. The “perfect mate”? There isn’t one and even more ironically, you certainly aren’t the perfect mate either. Hmmm, you want perfect, but you aren’t even close to being able to offer it. Yeah, let me know how that works out.

For a society that loves to tell people how smart they are, wow, “don’t care about tomorrow”, “don’t care about another person”, “don’t care about my kids”, “don’t care about the society I live in”, I could go on and on, but you get the idea. All the research and much more importantly God, emphasizes the importance of the family, of commitment, of sacrifice, of truly living like a mature human being. When you live like a mature human being, and everyone else does, we have a great society and it helps everyone to grow and be secure. When we have a society where everyone says “it’s all about me and the heck with everyone else”, well how do you think that’s going to end up? Find a way to make it happen, quit making excuses, quit trying to have it your way and then stick someone else with the consequences. You may think you’re smarter, but it will catch up to you and then all of a sudden just a world of hurt. And you’re going to sit there wondering why no one will help. Why? Because they’re busy being self-centered and selfish like you’ve been. Not so smart, huh?

Caesearea in Israel

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Herod the Great, the King of Israel, placed there by the Romans, was without question one of the greatest builders in Israel’s history. The reason he is called “Great” is for the many buildings, built during his reign. Israel has no real port on to the Mediterranean. Herod built this mostly to accommodate the Romans. It is a very Roman city with aqueducts, coliseum, made to be a very contemporary city of the time.